If men fail to listen and understand women’s issues, women also fail to listen and understand men and their issues. A large problem feminism, especially in its third wave iteration, is that it has become strictly a one way street.
As a long time huge fan of your political insights, on this topic I find your thoughts and attitude a bit bitter and unhelpfully divisive. If one of your intelligence and reasonableness harbors such deep resentment at the roles and results that the biology of sex and gender have dictated so far throughout societies for millennia, I have little hope that men and women will ever truly come to understand one another. Perhaps the best that can be hoped for is a workable detente.