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No, you’re either engaged as an interloctor or you’re seething in your own emotions. You have to know how to play both, and be capable of changing roles when sense and reason allow you to do so, and if not, be able to recognize that maybe listening is the best thing right now. This is the art of discussion. Sometimes the best reply to a fool is silence.

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