We generally believe that we have a privileged view of our own preferences and character, but in reality we don’t know ourselves that well (and definitely not as well as we think we do).
Who knows us better than ourselves? If you don’t know yourself, it’s about time to get started. After all, if we are not our own best friends, who else will be?
You might want to check out The Art of Talking to Yourself, by Vironika Tugeleva.