I’m a gay man, and just over 12 years sober, and I understand the anger and other strong emotions of the newly sober. I went through years of therapy to get some idea of all the emotions I’d been stuffing for years! and I’m still learning to deal with all of them. It’s a challenge and an incredible opportunity! Just remember that most people never get thru the wine haze, and remain there for the rest of their lives circling like a hamster on a wheel never satisfied always searching never knowing for what! Practice gratitude.