My advice to everyone on this blog. Don’t ever give up. Don’t be afraid to put yourself out there. Be aggressive. There is someone out there that has been through a lot in life and needs someone and something different. They have the power to put the outer shell in perspective. My first wife weighed 106 pounds and I hooked up with her at 18 because she was hot. Fast forward 16 years almost wasted — -I dated many and gave everyone 2–3 months to see if we worked out. Due to this I found someone super cool and have a great life.