DRESSED? — WHAT FOR?

Dipal Desai
Athena Talks
Published in
3 min readDec 18, 2016

I would like to say this disclaimer lines before you read following words. Just take a deep breath, sit down and be open minded and give a thought to following lines without being judgmental!!

Firstly, to all lovely ladies out there!!

We all like to dress well, I mean who doesn’t like to be the best!! We like to chit chat and gossip about other girls’ dressing. Here my question is, WHY ? Why do you want to create a buzz about it ?! I mean you want to talk about being strong, about having all rights and about each and every feminine things but why you can not be non-judgmental about your other friends or colleagues?! We discuss about society that it should accept it when we dress up in denims or skirts!!

But have you ever missed a chance of talking about other females’ dressing ? What is the issue ? Is it so that you can not bear other females looking more good than you ? or is it like you just can not live without criticizing them? We often notice that sometimes after wearing modern clothes, many girls change their walking style, attitude and even body language. I think this is because you have set up your mind like ‘I am wearing something different dude!! I am so cool!!’ and always try to gain attention. Seriously ?? Is there any need of all this ? Putting on very good dress of any style is very good but we should note two things here. First, we should ask two questions to our selves — what to wear and when to wear ? Second, wear it only when, you, yourself can accept it and after that only you can ask others to accept it :)

Secondly, to all boys out there!!

I am not going to advice you anything. You all are very understanding and mature but sometimes you forget to show it!! So I just want to ask you few questions….Have you ever heard that something is wrong with this boy….ohh it seems his character is not good or that kind of things when you wear a boxer ? Have you ever felt awkward and uncomfortable just because of wearing a particular kind of dress? Have you ever feel being judged by others just because of your attire ? I mean come on there is a lot going on out there in the world then why are you wasting your time in such things ???

To All,

So what do you think ? Do you dress up to be the best version of you or something else ?!!

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Cheers,

Dipal

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