We lie to ourselves on a daily basis — we buy into the “fake it til you make it” idiom. And the reality is, most people — almost 99% of us — get tired of beating our heads against the wall to achieve something big. Most people wouldn’t live in their car to achieve their BIG vision. Most people wouldn’t get up at 5am, put on their workout clothes, and go to the gym for an hour (and then monitor what they ate all day, everyday). Most people wouldn’t walk across the room to say HI to that gorgeous woman, let alone walk across 1000 rooms to talk to 1000 gorgeous woman.