Build Your Confidence in Leadership: 12 Strategies for Black Women in Their 40s and 50s

Dr. Twanna Carter
5 min readAug 12, 2023
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Why should you build your self-confidence? Because in our journey through life, self-confidence acts as the wind beneath our wings, propelling us to soar to new heights. Higher heights. For the ambitious Black woman in her 40s or 50s, such confidence is doubly significant. As you steer your ship amidst societal norms, cultural expectations, and your own ambitions, “boosting your self-confidence in leadership” isn’t just a catchphrase — it’s a lifeline.

If you find yourself in this dynamic phase of life, navigating professional peaks with the wisdom of age and the enthusiasm of youth, here are 12 tried and tested ways to build your self-confidence in leadership roles.

1. Reflect on Past Achievements

Remind yourself of past successes. Whether it was a project you led that surpassed expectations or a challenging situation you handled with grace, these moments are a testament to your capabilities. Cherish them. When I was an ROTC cadet, part of our training was to climb an 87 foot tower and zipline down. I was so terrified! I was okay observing from tall heights. I felt fairly safe. But sliding down a zipline, letting go of the handles, and dropping into the lake? Holy smokes! But, I did it. I was scared, and I did it anyway. It still makes me proud…

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Dr. Twanna Carter

Executive Coach💥Mental Fitness Coach💥Certified Hypnotist💥Unbreak My Soul Facilitator💥US Army Veteran💥1913🔺💥https://www.youtube.com/@coachtwannacarter