Don’t want to spoil the party, but Kickstarter won’t help you. This is the stuff the Gamergate movement has been saying ever since Spacekat came into the picture: She’s a professional victim and a pathological liar. She made her husband shill on Facebook to get R60 Greenlit on Steam. Kickstarter seems less than willing to want to do anything that negatively impacts people like Spacekat or other professional victims.
My advice? Go to your CCs and Paypal. Issue chargebacks. Get your banks involved. You will force Kickstarter’s hand.