YOU can have it ALL…(see inside)

You can have it all.

Remember those words.

And re-read them daily.

When I was 16 years young, I wanted so much, yet knew so little.

In fact, I knew very little, but just enough to keep moving.

I knew that I had so much to learn, I couldn’t stop moving.

I knew I wanted a pleasant life for myself.

I knew I wanted to travel, and enjoy life.

But there was a problem.

I didn’t have the tools or the mindset to get there.

I saw other people doing and having the life that I wanted, but I didn’t know how to do or have the things in life I wanted.

That included relationships, jobs/career, money, time, energy, fitness, etc… the list goes on.

So something terrible happened.

I made a mistake.

In fact, I made many mistakes.

One in particular stood out though.

I chose the wrong people to hang around with.

I spent, no, WASTED so much of my time with the WRONG people that I practically wasted years of my lfie.

Well, I’ll chalk it up to experience, but you get the point.

It doesn’t stop there though.

Because of the people I was hanging out with (and for the wrong reasons),

I would make bad decisions regularly.

I made decisions that weren’t in line with my higher values.

I put myself through a lot of pain-financially, physically and emotionally, because of those decisions, that were based on my peer group, because I wasn’t CLEAR on my VALUES.

And to make matters worse, I kept progressing through life, achieving my goals (although those goals were born from a mindset of surrounding myself with mediocre (mindset)-at best people).

“But how can that make things worse when you’re making progress?”

Here’s how:

When you make a mistake, life forces you to learn from it. If you don’t take the blessed opportunity to LEARN from your mistakes, you keep on going, and LIFE keeps bringing you NEW opportunities to learn from.

For me this was bad, because I didn’t learn for some time.

So I had problem after problem and pain after pain.

Yep.

Then something happened.

I started getting tired of having problems and issues and concerns.

Tired of the way I felt, my meager progress, and my lack of emotional strength.

So I made a decision.

Would you like to know what that decision was?

It was that in order to be doing the things I wanted to do, and have the things I wanted to have, I had to BE the person I needed to BE.

Sound simple?

Not even.

I went back through my journals, my years of writing, and examined my past thoughts, circumstances, successes and failures.

I found something out.

Success leaves clues.

Everytime I was on a roll, things were going well, there were certain things that I was doing, and certain things that I was NOT doing.

There were also a way that I was BE-ing.

I started to search for answers by looking at those that had come before me and had been more successful.

I began to subscribe to mentors blogs, read their webpages and postings, watch their youtube videos and attend their seminars.

In the past I had only done these things when I was “looking” for an answer.

Now I began doing these things as part of my DAILY habits.

I began to form habits, so that eventually my habits would form me.

But here’s the INTERESTING part:

Essentially I had known all of this before (my painful and pro-tracted learning experiences).

But I hadn’t taken ACTION.

What ultimately lead me to take action was the PAIN of not living the life that I knew I DESERVED.

And that’s why I write to you today.

You too can have it all.

There’s really nothing that says you can’t.

Or is there?

All you need to do is be grateful for the opportunities that you have, and SHOW that, not to me, but to the world, to yourself, by taking action.

Dr. Jason

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