I love him, but
 
"I loved him, but he was just not good for me. I dreamt of having the perfect life with him, but he just likes to nag a lot.
There are times that he even snores when he is sleeping. I am the kind of person who prefers total silence when sleeping, but he sleeps like a log of wood and snores out loud like a moving train".
 
 
I listened as my cousin narrated her experience with her newly found love for me. I could not help but smile as she explained all that was transpiring between them.
 
 
"The funniest part of the story is that he likes being in charge of all affairs. He wants to boss me around. He does not allow me to give my opinion on matters arising. He just wants to be the one doing everything. He does not allow me to contribute my quota too". She explained further.
 
 
After she explained all she had in mind, she also made her intentions known, saying she would be breaking up with him.
 
 
I laughed within me and said to her, Trying to find perfection in people will only cause you pain and make you see their wrong side. There is no perfect human being; we come together to make perfection.
 
We are raised differently, so we can’t expect a balanced equation of behaviors. Our lives are not the same; we have our strengths and weaknesses, and that makes us unique.
 
 
Therefore, trying to make everyone you’re in a relationship with perfect is not wrong, but you must do it in love and be ready to endure.
 
 
You cannot make anyone perfect by correcting them wrongly or out of love. Every correction must be made in love.
Fashion people to your taste by loving them and also by being an example of what you want them to be.
Perfection is only made possible in love, not out of love.
 
Shalom!
 
I am a pen and a voice!