My father dipped in and out of my childhood. A weekend one year. A phone call the next. Letters for a while. He left for a Black man’s reasons. He left for reasons I can rationalize. He left because he was being chased by the same people haunting my Blackness. I forgive him for being a Black man experiencing a Black man’s pain, but Black women are so often the collateral damage of Black men’s pain — and I haven’t forgiven that, yet. I haven’t forgiven him for stepping on my head to boost himself into some semblance of freedom.
Why Lemonade Is For Black Women
Dominique Matti
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Glad we got to see your father as a vulnerable elder first. Then we come into the prime of his life…

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