He is a young white man down on his luck with the added fortune of a less than stellar romantic life. He is a kind gentle and moral person with a growing inner rage that he does not know how to reconcile in a healthy way. This is what draws him to right wing punditry and the Anti-Feminist movement and he emulates some of those poor behaviors and rude mannerisms but this is NOT who he is in real life.
I have sympathy for him because when I was a young man I fell into the same mental trap. I was able to break free of it and I wont give up on him because I know one day he will understand.