The 7 Red Flags Your Marital Partner May Be Having an Affair
- They spend considerable time on their phone away from you and when you ask them who they’re texting they say “no one.”
- If you feel that the distance between you has widened and you ask them, “Is there something wrong?” and they reply, “No, everything is fine.”
- When your sex life used to be really great but now there’s hardly any sex at all and you initiate wanting to have sex and they’re not that interested.
- When you ask them who they’re texting and they say “It’s just someone from work” and you ask who, and they shrug their shoulders and say, “Elaine,” or “Rick” like there’s no concern but you get the feeling Elaine or Rick is more than a work colleague.
- If you ask if you can go through their phone and they get defensive, critical of you, or go ballistic.
- When you stumble upon an email or text they sent that is flirtatious or well over the line for work conduct and you ask them about it and they say, “That’s just how we talk. We’re just good friends.”
- You ask to see the messages they’ve sent to Elaine or Rick and they’ve deleted them.
Dave Worthen
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