Once you stop trying so hard, you will get the acknowledgment you want.
Stop Crowdsourcing Your Confidence
Darius Foroux

Trying too hard: Yes, that’s the trap everyone is taught to willingly enter for outer validation over which they have little influence and no control. Well put.

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