Yes, Nadia Cerezo I do have such sentiments, and another thing that really puzzles me is how people chase happiness and do all sorts of selfish things in the name of that happiness. But life has taught me that happiness isn’t an end in itself. We don’t seek happiness for the sake of happiness. Happiness does come to us, even occasionally, as a by-product of living meaningfully, of sharing our life without fear with others. So, even in the midst of harrowing grief, we experience that rare quality of joy that is rare to selfish people.