To be, or not to be, depends. Beautiful Big Women have it really rough. They get it from the “fit chicks” and the “rude dudes”. According to the U.S. Center for Disease Control one third of all Americans are obese and could benefit from losing weight. Obesity-related conditions include heart disease, stroke, type 2 Diabetes and certain types of cancer. Society and the media got it wrong. How we feel is more important than what we look like. But what people say hurts the mind and destroys the will.