From Vivian Fu:

Dear Shu,
Please let me know if I can be of some help: either personally as a
friend that have experience the same lost 20 years ago or a
professional that have help many widows in the past to put their
finance in order and deal with all the necessary paper filing.
I do not have a face book or use a twitter so I could not write a
response on the site. But I so vividly remember the first year I put
Team Taiwan together when I first moved to SD, he walked by my side
for quite a distance and gave me many encouraging words. I remember
it was raining and we just kept walking to the end.
He is such a gentleman with graceful manner like you. Please take care
of yourself for there will be road ahead that you need to walk bravely
alone.
Vivian