Do not fall in love with a smart, introverted man
Jennifer Lowe

I know you said man, but this seems like a little too alarmingly accurate description of me as a partner (I am a straight woman)… I don’t know about the specific details you mentioned but the family background, the “self-control” (which is more of a stubbornness than control, something that can end up being self-sabotage), the isolated problem solving…

Your article caught me on a start of another aloof “problem solving” that I may need to reconsider. Thank you.