Sorry to hear this happened to you! Recently I took some time to reflect on my friendships and noticed I was still calling my oldest childhood friend my “best friend” just because of history. I realized she’s actually selfish and we just don’t share the same values. When people change, and as you mention, mistreat guys, or bail on you, you want to distance yourself from that negativity so you did the right thing. Truth be told it doesn’t matter how long you’ve known a person or called them your friend, it matters how they make you feel TODAY. Take a look at her values – if you didn’t know her and you met her right now, would you be friends with her? I know you want closure, but sadly I’ve learned sometimes people like that don’t even know they’re selfish or disrespectful because they’re too caught up in their own drama to notice. Let it go and enjoy the time with your hubby – the best revenge is a happy life. :)
