Beyond Love - 2nd Rule of Relationship
"Think on relationship as a mesh fabric, where there are several knots, the more knots we have the harder will be to separate it!
Invest your time on the relationship, but not only in the most common way, on romantic walks or dinners, cinema or even that escape for sexual adventures.
Seek the best of you to offer your partner, work on your qualities, search for improvement in all aspects, but particularly those aspects you have in common with your partner.
To better understand my second rule for a happy and lasting relationship, I propose firstly, that we start by understanding the difference between the Persian and Turkish rugs.
In order to differentiate one rug from the other, a careful analysis of the material, stamping, mesh strength and quality of the raw material is necessary. According to the Brazilian specialist Marcílio Marques "the density of a handmade rug is related to the number of knots in the mesh. The tighter and numerous the knots, the denser and resistant the fabric will be. Besides being more resistant a rug with many nodes has more defined design. "Traditional Turkish style reduces the number of nodes per square meter compared to the Persian style, so a poor quality carpet contains only 500 knots per decimetre Square, while an excellent quality carpet can hold up to 10,000 knots per square decimetre. An example of such longevity is the 2,500-year-old Pazyryk Persian rug produced in the Achaemenid period, around 500 BC.
My second rule for a happy and lasting relationship is to think on relationship as a mesh fabric, where there are several knots, the more knots we have, the harder will be to separate the mesh fabric and your relationship will be more beautiful and it will also seems to be in the eyes of the world. Always have that principle emphasized in your actions and try to establish with your partner as many knots as possible.
Love is just the thread to create the knots and make the knit stronger and more beautiful; hence love itself does not make a relationship happy and lasting, even if it is the greatest love in the world. The relationship shall be happy and lasting only if we know how to use that line to create as many knots as possible. Start by becoming interest in those activities that your partner likes to do, and make them something in common (a knot), then search for new discoveries, embark on various adventures together, take him to that place you love, make programs together more often, always adding new nodes to your mesh.
The time you spend outside of the relationship should necessarily be used to strengthen the knots of relationship, as well. Simple things can lead to astronomical gains concerning to strengthening love. At all times we must work to strengthen love, tell how much you love, think of things to do when you are together, schedule activities, discover interesting subjects to share with each other, specially is very important that Your partner feels your presence when you are physically not there, therefore modern societies print a dynamic of life that makes time of coexistence between the family (wife, children, mothers, fathers and siblings) and friends increasingly reduced.
Happy and lasting relationships are bound together by complicity and friendship. For something that goes beyond LOVE!
