Benjamin Hardy, PhD — Author of Personality Isn’t Permanent

“In some ways suffering ceases to be suffering at the moment it finds a meaning.” — Victor Frankl

*Disclaimer: I was not compensated for this review in any way besides receiving pre-release editions of this book. is also not compensating me for this article. Opinions are completely my own.

The tendency we sometimes have to purposely avoid the topics of “religion” and “politics” to avoid controversies or…

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Change your frame, change your life

“The ability to perceive or think differently is more important than the knowledge gained.” — David Bohm


I recently did a self-reflection assignment in a class of mine.

As the professor and I reviewed the assignment questions so I could better prepare my answers, we fell to discussing the meaning…

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“Reds over here, Blues over there.
Whites over here, Yellows over there.”

Recently I heard those words spoken in a communications class, students having just taken the popular “color code” test.

I watched closely as the students moved and sat down in the four segregated sections of the room.


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Don’t make these mistakes in your relationships.

“You can make more friends in two months by becoming interested in other people than you can in two years by trying to get other people interested in you.” — Dale Carnegie

Little matters more than people.

Interestingly, I used to be a very shy and scared person. I was…

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“Facts are stubborn things.” — John Adams

Consciously creating your life is the single biggest gift you can give yourself.

Unfortunately, most people are trapped, “paralyzed,” and won’t act on what they know will make the difference. Or, they try a million different things, without actually knowing what they want.

Getting clarity on what you want is…

The key lies in cutting out what doesn’t matter

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Most people, particularly solopreneurs, are playing the social media game completely wrong.

Their profile is littered with a strange mix of personal life and business promotions, which ends up confusing both their clients and their real friends.

Furthermore, keeping up a constant stream of content to post flat-out burns most…

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It all starts with day 1…

“People who succeed have momentum. The more they succeed, the more they want to succeed, and the more they find a way to succeed.” — Tony Robbins

2019 is nearly over.

How far have you come?

How far did you want to go?

Have you been tracking the difference? …

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Productivity is less about the things you do and more about how HONEST you are with yourself.

When you know the art of productivity, you will stop racing to get things done that do not serve your bigger future. You will see why successful people seem to get done five times as much as the people who are ‘just busy.’ ” — Dean Graziosi

When I recently…

The secret sauce to blowing past your inner fears

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Creativity is poorly understood by most people.

The majority understand creativity as a random, lucky connection in the brain, rather than an executable process. Most people think that because of this ‘randomness’ there are creative people, and then there are not.

This is actually a harmful myth that pervades our…

Gather your tribe with authenticity

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“People like us do things like this.” — Seth Godin

Steve Larsen recently stressed the importance of telling your people one simple thing: what you fight for and what you fight against. He said:

“You just need to answer the questions:

I’m fighting for — — #Blank?!

I’m fighting against…

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