This didn’t make much sense to me. I’m poly and in one relationship that is 32 years old, and a second relationship that is almost 3 years old and going strong. And I date occasionally too, and love getting to know new people. Am I a spark chaser or a log burner? And my poly friends are mostly like me, most of them are in a long-term relationship or two and also have an assortment of shorter-term ones. What are we? Could it be that this perhaps isn’t as simple and binary as the author thinks it is?