Dating Advice For Women By A Professional Matchmaker

Sherri Murphy
Nov 8 · 2 min read

Dating can be hard, especially if you have been out of the game for a while. The dating world today is so difficult to navigate, now that there are so many online dating sites. Maybe it’s time to meet someone the old fashioned way, here are some tips from a Matchmaker.

Be yourself
We’ve all heard this a million times, but it’s true. It is always best to be the best version of yourself. The matchmakers at Elite Connections advise all their clients to be themselves. Dating is hard enough as it is, why put up a façade. Men will like you for who you are, don’t try to be someone that you’re not. Even if you aren’t necessarily interested in the same things, you might have other things in common so give him a chance. The first date is always a little awkward, but just have fun what do you have to lose.

Be open minded
At Elite Connections we match our clients with people who match their preferences and then we go from there. Our clients are able to see each others profiles, which has photos and information about them. Our Matchmakers always say don’t judge a book by it’s cover and go into this with an open mind. Yes you and your date get to talk to each other previous to your date, but its always best to get to know each other when you meet. That way you can see if you two click or not. Find out what your interests are, maybe you both have things in common.

Don’t be immature
Men and women are both guilty of playing games with one another. Our Professional Matchmakers say go on a few dates to give the gentlemen a chance. That way you get to know the person a little bit more. Whether you are feeling that it’s a good fit or not, it’s better to just be honest. If you lewd someone on or make excuses to not go out again then that’s just not very nice. Nobody likes confrontation, but sometimes you need to just be open and honest because maybe if there was something that bothered you about him, then it’s good to let him know so he can work on those things. If you are interested in talking with an elite matchmaker about Elite Connections then check out our website www.eliteconnections.com or contact us info@eliteconnections.com 800–924–4200.

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