Ella HHow obsessing over growth can prevent you from happinessI know obsessing over growth can prevent you from happiness because that’s exactly what’s happening to me right now. I want to talk a bit…5 min read·Oct 23, 2023--2--2
Ella HI’m a feminist but want a relationship with traditional rolesI’m gonna start by saying that this piece also relates to masculinity and femininity which I’ve already written plenty about; however I…6 min read·Sep 18, 2023--1--1
Ella HTough loveIt’s been about three months since I’ve written anything; I haven’t had my shit together and it took me longer than it should have to get…3 min read·Sep 7, 2023----
Ella Hwhy can’t i rest?I think it’s normal, somewhat at least; to want rest so badly, but at the same time feel incapable of it. Why do I have to be busy to feel…3 min read·Jun 8, 2023----
Ella Hwhy men love bitches part 2I wrote an article a year ago about the book “Why Men Love Bitches” by Sherry Argov, and recently I picked the book back up to read it…6 min read·May 16, 2023----
Ella Hthe conflict us girls know all too wellThere is nothing quite like being in constant conflict with your own body. One that is confusing, and inconsistent, and unsettling…3 min read·Apr 26, 2023----
Ella Hgive to the right onesSometimes the people you want in your life, the people you want to give love to, aren’t in a position to receive what you are willing to…1 min read·Apr 19, 2023----
Ella Hto write, or not to writeWriting has always been what I turn to. Always. Some people take pictures, some people talk, some people create art; both to escape their…2 min read·Apr 5, 2023--2--2
Ella Ha love letterI used to affirm myself often of all the things there are to love about me, in hopes of someday believing them. And I stopped doing that…2 min read·Mar 12, 2023--1--1
Ella HJust show yourself some fucking graceProbably like many of you, this time of year doesn’t do great things for my mental health. I sometimes forget that seasonal depression is a…3 min read·Mar 1, 2023----