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…exit more dignified… she passed seven months later at home. Where you die, and who is around you at the end, is a strong signal of your success or failure in life.
His prompt of, “Hey — we’ve got 30 minutes until we have to meet our friends for dinner… wanna get it on?” is completely synonymous to me saying to him, “Hey, we’ve got 30 minutes until we have to leave — can I run something by you?”
Once we’re doing it, it’s great! Everyone wins and it’s a hell of an awesome time. But then I just get stuck in the daily routine of life and I really suck at checking in with my partner about how he’s doing and if his needs are being met.