
I guess a part of me understands this. And a part of me screams, what’s wrong with sex? A man is hardwired to please. And that includes the person he is with. I’m so tired of women whining about how they were “used” as sexual objects.
Sex is meant to be enjoyed by BOTH parties, frequently. Dare I say daily. This “what will you do for me” attitude is harmful.
If you are a woman and your needs are NOT being met, it is your fault. Yes I said it. If your needs are not being met, you haven’t expressed what your needs are. Again, men want nothing more than to please a women. If they aren’t doing it for you, you aren’t vocal enough.
But I don’t know what I want…you may say, quit being a damn victim. Sex isn’t like it’s written in the romance novels, you may have read. It isn’t like the scenes from tv. It’s messy and it’s intimate. Yes, intimate. Explore, have fun, try new things, get vocal.
Yes, porn depicts sex acts in a way that is not intimate, so men shouldn’t learn sex tricks from porn. They should learn sex tips from the person they are with.
Men think about sex all the time. So do I, so what. Is that bad? At 3:30 every day I dream about my husband returning home and what our nightly romp will look like.
Sex is a connection. It binds people together. Stop withholding it because you are mad, tired, upset or whatever excuse you are giving yourself. If you aren’t enjoying it, that’s why you don’t want to do it, otherwise, you’d be all over your man, every damn time you are able.
Men, if you are in a sexless home, there is hope. www.cuddleprinciple.com check it out. If women feel they are being used, well, you need to change that mindset.
Their pleasure comes first. Your pleasure, in pleasing them, is much more than your orgasm will ever be.
We get just as frustrated as you do. More so, if you aren’t making us have orgasms on a regular basis.
Women, seriously, take off your big girl panties and get vocal. Sex, between couples, is a GOOD thing.
