Hello!

“You will be wondering who am I. You may be happy to see

me on medium or may be don’t care.”

Since I joined Toastmasters, I feel, for the very first time in my life, that

I am the person I have always wanted to be. It gives me confidence to

express my feeling and thoughts in front of strangers. Finally I decided to

write my first post on medium today.

My theory about life has changed and I stop following other peoples rules

when I made my own. Do whats make you happy no matter how crazy it is

sounds to people.

Take time listen what is inside your mind and what is inside your heart.

I was different and I was determine to be unique. I was driven to think big

and dream more. As you get older, it is easier to be positive. You care less

about what other people think. I don’t question myself anymore. I’ve even

earned the right to be wrong. I am not scared of anyone anymore.

As I’ve determine, I’ve become more kind to myself and people, and less

critical to life. I’ve become my own best friend. I don’t chide myself for

eating that extra cookie. I have given myself permission to speak freely, to

be creative or abstract, to be expressive.

I know I am sometimes forgetful. So what? Some parts of life are just as

well forgotten. As long as I remember the important

things, that’s what matters.

Sure, over the years my heart has been broken. How can your heart

not break when you lose a loved one, or when a child suffers a minor

scratch, or even when a beloved pet gets hit by a car? Or you don’t

understand javascript. But broken hearts are what give us strength and

understanding and compassion.

I like the person I have become. I am not going to live forever, but while I

am still here, I will not waste time lamenting what could have been, or

worrying about what will be. I will make my history in my world of

design. And I shall eat dessert every single day.

“Spread love… Everywhere you go, let no one ever come to you without leaving happier.”

~Author Unknown