Turner and I moved in together on our first date. This sounds insane, but all I can say is, sometimes you just know. We knew. We didn’t want to be apart, so we weren’t. Pretty much ever. With two weeks we were talking about marriage. After three months, we annouced the engagment to our families, who were all immensely supportive. We know have a full on adult life with grocery shopping and a joint checking account and everything. At absolutely no point did I ever have even a shadow of doubt about any of it. At absolutely no point did I think we were moving too fast or being unwise. I can’t describe it or excuse it, but we just KNEW. I have no regrets. I love him so much it makes me cry sometimes. I want to be with him forever. I want to raise my children with him. Our future is bright, and our present is exactly where I want it to be.
I understand my situation is not typical, and I’m not trying to justify anything. I just wanted to put it out there that every relationship is different and sometimes things that look like a mistake to people on the outside is actually something that on the inside you are so sure of that you never question it.