You’re crossing the line of fidelity, and you know it. But you don’t know what to do. You thought your flirting was pretty innocent and friendly. How did you end up cuddling this woman, (Nerida* – who is not your fiancé) drinking wine, giving massages and sharing dreams?

How did you end up here, on a leadership retreat under the stars in the cold, with your arm around her?Shes telling you how unhappy she is in her own relationship and maybe you’re thinking to yourself, “what if?”

While you’re crossing the line with this woman next to you, I want to tell you about your next 8 years. …



We should talk about the things no one wants to talk about. That would heal the world.

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