Dear Lonely Men,

It’s this sort of behavior that causes women to distrust most men. Men complain about it all the time. It’s hard to start new relationships. It’s hard to hold on to existing relationships. A good portion of that is due to a lack of trust. And men have brought this upon themselves. You treat women like that and make them feel so uncomfortable that they can’t trust anymore, that’s what you’re going to get. I feel sorry for the good men out there (yes, they exist) who have to pay for the sins of the rest of our sex. I even feel bad for the ones who are doing this kind of stuff. You’re reciprocating your own self-destructive behavior. And it has given a bad name to men everywhere. That’s a lot of weight to carry. And it’s a burden that I am glad I do not carry.