THIS IS WHY A SECRET IS MORE IMPORTANT TO YOU (AND FAMILY AND FRIENDS) THAN YOU THINK IT DOES

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Keeping a secret can put enormous pressure on your life. You may hide it for fear of overwhelming emotions from your environment. Yet great secrets often take a course of their own within your family system. They can cause elusive restlessness and attach themselves to someone who has nothing to do with the secret. All this to get the family system back into balance. The most beneficial for all involved is often to take control yourself. But does that mean that…

Els van Steijn

Els van Steijn (1969) is specialised in the systemic perspective. She is a coach, family- & organization constellator, (bestseller) writer and keynote speaker.

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