Tami this is beautiful and relevant to so many of us, thanks for sharing and articulating what a lot of us feel but have a hard time articulating. Maybe a great way to help your mom is to get her connected into a women’s group that focuses on support, community and empowerment. From what I’ve seen, changing your circle does change your world and it’s never too late for that. Wishing happy holidays and the best into the New Year for you and your own family and friends xo Emily