E BAdoption, part 7.I deleted part 6 shortly after posting it, because it was largely about my teenage kid, and I hadn’t gotten their permission to say…Nov 5, 2017Nov 5, 2017
E BAdoption, part 5.I want to write about some more uncomfortable topics, because I guess that’s what I do here. The ones I’m thinking of today are all under…Oct 2, 2017Oct 2, 2017
E BAdoption, part 4. Addendum.Somehow I wrote that whole last post without talking at all about privilege. This is partly because it’s so fucking obvious that I forget…Sep 26, 2017Sep 26, 2017
E BAdoption, part 4.We had our first home study meeting this past weekend. We were kind of nervous about how it would go, but the social worker was super…Sep 25, 2017Sep 25, 2017
E BAdoption p.3.The social worker who’s going to do our home study called yesterday to set up our first meeting(!), and I’m so exhausted from everything in…Sep 19, 2017Sep 19, 2017
E BAdoption. Part 2.I’m not a big believer in keeping elephants in the room, as most folks who know me know (too?) well. I’ll ask the embarrassing questions…Sep 16, 2017Sep 16, 2017
E BAdoptionWell, I wrote a long draft a few days ago, and thought it was saved in Medium, but just came back to find the site blank. My memory isn’t…Sep 15, 2017Sep 15, 2017