Everything You Need To Know About Simping And How To Stop Simping As A Man.

Emilicino
4 min readSep 14, 2023

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Who’s a SIMP?

Being a simp is a term used when a guy is being too nice to a woman when he is fishing for compliments, or trying to get with her.

Simp.

A man who puts too much value on a woman for no reason is a simp; he’ll put a woman first before himself, and he’ll do anything to please a woman whether it’s giving attention, money, or lifts, in an attempt to receive affection from her.

How Will You Know If You’re A Simp?

— When you put girls on a pedestal, I mean no matter what a girl does, you don’t see any fault in what they are doing, you can’t criticize them as they are superior to you. You’re a simp.

— When you double text a girl, you are a simp.

— When you're too nice to a girl, you’re a simp.

When you look for validation from women, you’re a simp.

Girls will ask you to do something and you’ll do it straight away even when it’s not beneficial to you, you’re a simp.

When you beg for sex, you’re a simp.

When you send a woman money to reply to your DM or use the money to win a woman’s heart over, you’re a simp.

Know this, being a simp would never get you loved, but played and taken advantage of, Wake up!

Some may say this is just being gentlemanly, but there’s a difference between being a gentleman and a simp. Never fall in this category of weak, submissive, low-value men.

How Can You Stop Being A Simp?

— Build/improve yourself: Improve your dress sense, improve your looks (get creams that make your skin glow, a nice haircut, smell nice), learn to speak fluently too, cos a lot of men simp as a result of low self-esteem. Improve yourself.

All this will help you get more confident in yourself for yourself and also when you deal with women. Women love confident men, that’s why a simp’s girlfriend will cheat at any given opportunity with a confident-looking bad guy.

— Delete all simp tunes: listen to Future, Meek Mill. Listen to Blaqbonez than you listen to John Legend and the likes

— Give girls you simping for space: Unfollow them on social media, delete all photos you have of them, refresh your social media feeds, and just disconnect.

— Stop being an introvert: Go outside, meet new women, communicate with them, and make yourself seen so you can attract women too. The fewer women you have, the more desperate you are when conversing with this gender but if you have plenty, you won’t let anyone waste your time.

— Focus on chasing the bag, not women: High-value men don’t chase, women chase them. Truth is; women send DMs first, women send men money, and women spend money they get from simps on dominant kings. Wake up so you don’t play yourself, kings, use your head, and be in your frame.

— Be intentional: Tell girls what you want with your full chest. Is it just sex, Tell her, that if she ain’t down, don’t beg her for the fun cos your d!ck is too precious, move to the next, that’s the power of abundance. You have options.

— Set boundaries: Know when to be sweet, and when to stop.

— Be dominant: Dominant men get the women they want, and not who’s available.

Don’t always be available: Know when to ghost women. It makes them value you more. You guys just started talking and you disturbing her with calls always? You’re not jobless bro, and even if you’re, pretend not to be. Don’t be that type of guy, your time is expensive bro.

Furthermore , ask a woman what her definition of a perfect man is and she’d describe a simp LOL not because she likes you, though don’t play yourself. Women keep all types of men around since many of them love to use men, and every guy still gon’ to serve a purpose.

The hard guy, maybe for sex while you the simp, maybe for transfers, bills, and to kiII boredom. A lot of simps get ignored in the DM then she texts you back when she’s bored & you’ll still reply with the speed of light. Different guys, different roles based on who she sees you as.

So if you're simping and she’s keeping you, just know she’s using you & she’ll never wanna lose someone she’s using. From this, you should know that you can be a boyfriend who simps with his girlfriend, Simping isn’t limited to single guys, but guys in relationships too. Wake up!

Some of you will go single the moment money stops coming, your money has been the only thing keeping her in that relationship, some of you send weekly allowances, monthly allowances, and some of you are playing fatherly roles, more like you paying her to be in a relationship with you

There’s no benefit in simping, to be honest, everything you attract isn’t genuine, fake companies, fake love, fake orgasms, just fakes, wake up!!!

In conclusion, the word SIMP originates from the abbreviation of a simpleton, which is a name for someone foolish.

So, if you’re a simp, that means you’re foolish. Do not simp kings, get back in your masculine frame, and save yourself today. Learn game mez.ink/alphamalex2x

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