Nov 8, 2019Member-onlyWhat Getting Ghosted Really Feels LikeI find him on OkCupid after a long, hard winter. His smile is warm, like the first sign of spring. We’re a 97% match and his profile could have been downloaded out of my head. It’s honest, emotionally available, creative, intelligent and, no, I don’t think I’m projecting. He’s already…Dating6 min read
Published in Human Parts·Apr 10, 2019Member-onlyI Tried a Sensory Deprivation Chamber — On a First DateAs an online dating consultant, it was an offer that ignored the advice I give my clients. I went anyway. — My Bumble match asked me on a first date — in a sensory deprivation chamber. I had only been texting briefly with Sam, a cute lawyer from Philadelphia, before he suggested we meet. In a tub of salt water. In the dark. Wearing only our bathing suits. My mind raced…Dating9 min read
