Is there a woman you’re deeply in love with, but you just got rejected by her? Then check out this article.
I’m about to share with you a “hack” you can use to recover from rejection. And it won’t matter how heartbroken you might feel right now.
And trust me — I KNOW how you feel.
Getting rejected by her — or any other woman — SUCKS. Period. It’s not just a failed attempt that you can quickly recover from. It’s a real blow to your womanhood — like you’ve failed as a woman because of it.
So on one hand, I know the pain you feel.
On the other hand, I must tell you about the danger you’re in. If you can’t recover from rejection FAST, you’ll turn into a bitter, spiteful woman who will never be happy in life.
Let’s make sure that doesn’t happen, eh?
I’m about to show you a technique called the “Pedestal Switch.” It’s the fastest way to recover from rejection.
And that’s not all…
Pedestal-Switching will also make sure you NEVER feel the sting of rejection again.
Does that sound too good to be true? If so, then you’re in for an eye-opening, life-changing experience in this article. The Pedestal Switch Technique
So let me tell you about the Pedestal Switch technique.
It was first taught to me by My Mentor. She’s an attraction coach for women and an expert in male dating psychology. I’ve reviewed her flagship program Shogun Method here.
My Mentor teaches women how to lead relationships not with pickup tricks, but with SCIENCE.
And one of her most important lessons happens to be about “Pedestalizing.” Here’s what that’s about.
“Pedestalizing” means putting a man you like on an imaginary “pedestal” in your life. It’s as if you see him as some god to be worshipped and pleased, or some prize to work hard for and “win.”
Are you guilty of Pedestalizing? Here are some common signs that you are.
Maybe you can’t stop thinking of new ways to please a man or make him laugh.
Or when he needs something, you drop everything you’re doing to help him.
Or when he asks you to stop doing something you love, you do it right away.
Or when you make sure you NEVER offend him or make him angry.
If any of these sound like your behavior around men — then yes, you’re Pedestalizing. And that’s the opposite of what makes relationships work.
And guess what — it’s the reason why you get rejected by men so easily and so often.
Why? Pedestalizing men makes you look weak, submissive, and a slave to your emotions.
It’s like he’s your “king,” and you’re his “slave.” That’s the dynamic you put into play when you Pedestalize a man.
Think about it. Do kings fall in love with slaves? Nope. In fact, when a slave tries to make a move on a king, she’d probably get thrown in the dungeon!
If getting rejected feels like being thrown in the dungeon to you — well, now you know why.
What do you think? Do you agree that Pedestalizing NATURALLY leads to rejection? In any case, here’s the solution — you need to Pedestal-Switch.
That is, you got to make it so that you NEVER put men on a pedestal. Instead, you put YOU on a pedestal.
That is, you put your happiness, your needs, your self-actualization, your goals and dreams, your purpose or mission in life…
…ALL THAT comes first. And men, dating, sex, and relationships — they’re all a distant second for you.
That way, YOU do the rejecting. Men either tag along with you for the ride of a lifetime… or they step aside, making way for a better man to walk into your life.
THAT’S the kind of dynamic your relationships should have.
Sounds good, right?
There’s just one problem, though — Pedestal-Switching is a HUGE mindset shift.
And that means it might take a long time to do, especially if you’ve been a “nice person” for most of your life.
So here’s what I suggest: Use a shortcut.
To be specific, use a technique to Pedestal-Switch in an INSTANT. And it’s called the TBD Sequence.
TBD Sequence
So here’s how the TBD Sequence works.
“TBD” stands for “That’s Girlfriend Duty.”
And that’s pretty much it. It’s that simple. “That’s Girlfriend Duty” is the simple line you say when a man tries to treat you like a slave.
For instance, let’s say you’re trying to get with a man you just met. Things are going well, although you can sense he’s hesitating to get romantic with you. Like he’s playing hard to get — which is normal.
And then suddenly, out of the blue, he asks for a favor. He calls you and says his car broke down and he needs you to give him a ride.
This time, you don’t Pedestalize him. You don’t drop what you’re doing to help him.
Instead, you tell him: “Nah, That’s Girlfriend Duty.”
Or let’s say he asks you to lend him money. You then tell him: “Are you serious? That’s Girlfriend Duty.”
Or let’s say he wants you to take him to a party or concert you don’t care for. You tell him: “Ask your girlfriend. That’s Girlfriend Duty.”
You see how it works? And if you notice there’s some similarity to reverse psychology, then you’re right.
And that’s not all. When you use this technique, one of two things will happen.
Either he gets offended and leaves in a huff, saying something like: “Okay, maybe I will.” Which is a good thing — you’ve successfully weeded out a manipulator from your dating rotation.
Or something else might happen — a Pedestal-Switch. That is, he stops trying to manipulate you and instead starts QUALIFYING himself to you.
He might say something like: “What? Hey, pleeease? I’ll do anything.”
Or he might laugh, play along, say something like: “What? But I thought you WERE my girlfriend!”, to which you might retort: “What? Me? We’ve never even slept together. Not even third base. What are you talking about?”
That’s what an instantaneous Pedestal-Switch looks like. It’s beautiful when you realize he’s trying to win YOU over instead of the other way around.
Try the TBD Sequence out sometime. You’ll be surprised at how quickly your love life will change.
Now, here’s a spoiler alert…
When he starts showing signs of attraction, you’ll need to switch to a different approach. Now, you’ll need to CAPITALIZE on his attraction.
If you don’t, he’ll lose interest in you very quickly. And not only that — now he’ll hate you, too, because he’ll feel like you played him like a fool.
So what should you do now? The next technique I’ll introduce you to will turn his growing attraction and sexual tension into ADDICTION.
And it’s all you’ll need to start a relationship that will be strong, happy, and exciting for a lifetime.
The Ultimate Rejection Recovery Technique
So what’s this technique?
It’s called Fractionation. And long story short, it’s a storytelling technique that makes him feel more and more ADDICTED to you over time.
Yup — not just attracted or seduced. He’ll be TOTALLY ADDICTED to you. He’ll do whatever it takes to keep you.
Fractionation is the “secret ingredient” in today’s happiest and most successful relationships.
Check out the link at the end of this article. It will take you to a special Online Masterclass on Mind Control, hosted by My Mentor.
If you’ll recall, My Mentor’s the person behind everything I’m teaching you now. In this Masterclass, she’ll teach you all about Fractionation — what it is, how it works, and how to start using it TODAY.
Combined with the “TBD Sequence,” you won’t just recover from your past rejections. You’ll also flip the script, and start doing the rejecting YOURSELF.
So, are you ready to FINALLY be in control of your love life?
Want to start making men qualify themselves to YOU instead of the other way around?
And are you ready to change your life RIGHT NOW?
Then go ahead — click this link and join My Mentor’s Online Masterclass right now. I’ll see you there.
