Why Aren’t More Men Using Sex Toys?
I asked my husband why he doesn’t use one. His answer surprised me
I found out about sex toys for men quite recently.
I knew that bachelor parties sometimes featured a blow-up dolls and that my local adult novelty store carried one somewhere near the back. But I figured they were just a novelty item, like dick-shaped lollipops for bachelorettes or that one time I found a box of penis-shaped pasta noodles (for what purpose, I still can’t fathom).
I didn’t think anyone actually stuck their dicks in those.
When my bridesmaids got a blowup doll for my bachelorette party, I confirmed that fact by fingering its mouth (yep, cheap champagne makes me act really classy). Rough, dry, and some irritating seams — definitely not meant for any but the most masochistic cocks.
But then I read about the Fleshlight. The brand is only a few years younger than me, but I was only made aware of them a few years ago.
Discovering pocket pussies was exciting. I did some more research and it seemed legit. This wasn’t some blowup doll’s mouth — this was a silicone wonder.
I figured this would be perfect for my husband. He’s always had a really high sex drive. During our first few months together, we’d fuck multiple…
