Review of the Liberator Humphrey sex toy mount — As soon as I took the Humphrey out of the box, I knew I’d be using it almost constantly. I could tell right away it was going to be a fantastic sex pillow. But I also found out it would be a great permanent addition to my bed. It’s firm…

It can be tough to hear, but it doesn’t have to be a bad thing — A lot of guys have a really hard time hearing about their partner’s exes. Well, some of the exes anyway. The schlubby guy who was way below her league isn’t that big of a deal. The rude, obnoxious jerk she can’t believe she dated — he’s alright too. Same with…

Getting off shouldn’t be this complicated — I’ll never, ever kink shame anyone. That’s just not how I roll. There’s one exception, though. I sort of kink shame myself. Pretty regularly, too. I know there’s nothing wrong with any of the things that turn me on. …

Hot action that will still keep you cool — People talk about hot, sweaty sex like being hot and sweaty doesn’t suck. And okay, fine. I kind of get it. I know what people really mean is passionate sex. Sex that’s physically intense. Banging it out so hard and for so long that it burns some legit calories. I…

You can have way more fun together — You can use any sex toy as a couple. And you absolutely should. Using toys on your partner is so much fun. You can give them so many different kinds of stimulation and incredible amounts of pleasure. The reactions you get out of them are just plain hot. And it’s…

These little moves will make sex so much hotter — There’s this complaint I’ve had a few times over the years. When I write an article about what ladies want in bed, I’ll hear from men who will tell me they’ve got a real simple solution to all this. If women want sex a certain way, they should just ask…

If I hear them, I’m ghosting — Well, I finally did it. I gave Tinder a shot. And I’ll call it a partial success. Because I downloaded the app partly out of curiosity. I had never tried anything like it and I wanted to know what it was like. And now I know. Mission accomplished — my…

It’s everything that made the Magic Wand amazing — only better — A lot of sex toys have disappointed me over the years, but it’s the Magic Wand that broke my heart. I had never used one until I was in my early thirties, but I had a crush on it for as long as I could remember. Everything about it intrigued…

Don’t let good sleep get in the way of a great bang — I take my sleep very seriously, so I’m pretty fussy about mattresses. Ideally, it should be a cross between a cloud and a marshmallow. It should have a soft sink that takes my shape and cradles the contours of my body while I drift off to dreamland. Nothing too firm…