I wonder if this isn’t also about projection? I mean these women that are so critical of another woman’s right to decide whether to devote the rest of their lives to being a mother, like your mother did, they strongly resent other women wanting to choose not to take that path.
What you’re perpetuating is the idea that pregnancy is a punishment for women, that sex is a problem, and women shouldn’t be allowed to have the freedom of pleasure that men do.
That’s really gross. I hope you aren’t having sex with anyone until you deal with that mistaken belief.