You call yourself a grownup
After reaching a certain age , after going through your first breakup or your long list of failures . you call yourself a grownup and you start lecturing about life. the truth is , sometimes a ten year old boy can teach you a life lesson because maturity is not about age, in fact it’s just a matter of perspective.
I keep on believing that everything in life is a matter of perspective ,so i convince myself that what i see is only a small one part of the whole truth, and my thoughts are attached to the feelings of a someone so emotional , someone who didn’t see the world or experience anything.
I end up disappointed every time because i convince myself that it’s my fault, that i did something wrong , but is it true ?
See, you’re in a position that requires not only accepting your reality but also accepting the reality of others , it is almost impossible for you to keep being on their track, they’re progressing , their changing mood and emotions. and the truth is that you keep trying so hard to catch that track , you start putting others ahead and make their happiness your top priority, you force yourself to do some silly and sometimes stupid things just to please them , so they won’t hurt or disappoint you.
But the ugly truth is that everyone loses, and end up losing themselves as well. So which perspective allows such a tragedy i wonder..