I wouldn’t say we’re “attacking” her. The article reveals a very immature attitude and elicits a response from those of us who are free of such worries. If you publish an article online you can expect differing viewpoints. If it seems like we’re attacking her adulthood, it’s because her article details a very juvenile obsession with what other people think of her. Real adults don’t care about this stuff, as you one day won’t. Simple disagreement is not an attack, but you’ll learn that too, eventually.