5 Signs You Are a Sigma Male.

Terry Weller
2 min readMar 31, 2021

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Everyone has heard of Alpha males and Beta males. But there is actually a third type of male: the Sigma male.

On the Socio Sexual Hierarchy, Alpha males run the show, then Betas, then Deltas, then Gammas, then Omegas. So where does the Sigma male come in? Well, a Sigma male is simply not on the hierarch. They are technically equal to Alphas, but they stay out of the hierarchy by choice.

1. You stay to yourself.

Sigma males often dance to the beat of their own drum. It’s not that they don’t like others; they just prefer to have themselves as their company.

2. You don’t subscribe to group ideas.

Ideas and opinions held by large groups of people usually make Sigma males shy away from them. Unless they like it, of course, but a Sigma male forms an opinion on their own. They never like something because it’s the popular thing to do, but because they genuinely like it. Vice versa for dislikes.

3. The way you dress.

Sigma males tend to not be too concerned with the current “fashion” in the dress world. Because of this, they often wear just what will work. Their favorite outfit is a blank t-shirt or hoodie and a pair of jeans. Nothing fancy, but it gets the job done.

4. You don’t follow others expectations.

A Sigma male does not work to impress others. He always values his happiness the most, and he will pursue that regardless of what others think. A Sigma male is not concerned with what others think of him, because he knows it is useless to try to change that.

5. You lead yourself.

You don’t look for someone else to do something before you do. Sigma males don’t mind having to make the first move. They don’t let an Alpha do something before them to show it’s okay, they just don’t need it.

Conclusion

So now you know some traits about Sigma males. If these do not describe you, and you want to be a Sigma male, don’t fret! You can try to adopt these traits into your normal life and become the Sigma male all the ladies want!

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