Only could suffer through about 20% of this pseudointellectual bullshit. You really lost me with the line in the first paragraph about going to raves to observe rather than participate. That’s the problem with self-righteous miserable people like you: you hide behind not participating in anything at all just so you can ever be vulnerable enough to get hurt. Here’s some free advice, get a life and stop writing blog posts about how lame other people are. Your “anthropological observations” say a lot more about you than anyone else.