Oct 8, 2017 · 1 min read

I have been called this and it makes me so uncomfortable. I understand that it is meant to be a compliment, but it removes my humanity. It says “I see you as otherworldly and above,” which sets up unrealistic expectations about me and how I interact with the world. It is a trap wearing the clothes of a compliment.

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