On March I listened to 73 episodes from 45 different podcasts. Many of those shows were new to me, and there’s a good chance I won’t come back to many of them again. That’s not because those shows were bad — It’s simply because only one particular episode intrigued me, so I already got what I wanted from them.

I like to think of myself as a “podcast wanderer.” This is a term I came up with to describe people who listen to standalone episodes from many different podcasts.

(I also considered “podcast nomad” or “nomad listener” but right now…

I remember when I discovered podcasts as a medium. One summer day in 2009, I found that the iTunes store had a category called podcasts. It was content that I could download for free! I thought that was amazing.

I was very excited by the possibilities. Podcasts were a window to anything I wanted to learn. It was not limited by a place, time or a generic set of subjects. It was a medium that truly gave me the freedom to learn.

Notice that I made this discovery during the summer, when I had time to explore.

First, I listened…

I have many concerns with Jordan B. Peterson’s advice on parenting. Going into his book, I already knew that my views on the matter differed, but I didn’t expect it to be by such a wide margin.

Full disclosure: I have little experience with children. However, studying how one can best raise children has been a focus of mine for more than 5 years. I partly pursue this because it’s a great form of self-therapy and partly because I want to eventually use what I learn to be the best parent I can be (if I ever become one).


“I’m shy at first, but once we get to know each other I can be very outgoing.”

When people describe themselves, I hear that sentiment quite often. A long time ago I was someone who may have said such a thing thinking it was just a part of my personality. Now I see the tragic implications of those words.

To understand the implications let’s first define what it means to be shy. I’m defining shyness as being fearful of expressing yourself around others. This does not include introverts, provided that they aren’t timid or nervous when they are with company…

Intuitively, we understand that if we can get the same results with either violence or non-violence, then the method of non-violence is infinitely more moral. To clarify, here are some examples of goals and how they can be met with and without violence:

  1. Getting a girl — I can kidnap one and trap her in a well Buffalo Bill style, OR I can make myself appealing, ask her out, and allow her to voluntarily choose to be with me.
  2. Getting a kid to do chores — I can threaten to hit him if he doesn’t do it, OR I can…

Erick Muller

I'm a promoter of self-knowledge, self-directed learning, and freedom. You can find more of me at http://erickmuller.com/

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