Eric Muyser
Jul 27, 2017 · 2 min read

> That’s your job. That’s on you and all men.

Really? Could you please explain to me why?

I pay attention quite well, and I’ve rarely seen a women referred to sexually or aggressively (any different than a man). Less than once a year, but I don’t get out much. Never in the office. On the flip side, numerous times have I seen men pushing this idea that women have it bad. Though linkedin, meetups, etc. but where are these people seeing it, experiencing it? I work just as much as them, and I DO NOT see it in the office. At all. I’m guessing they just read it, or know somebody, or maybe after hours. Some people have found my anti-social manner of getting shit done at work aggressive. And it’s never been about gender. I’ve known at least a few guys who said bad shit about me, even directly to me. Or super aggressive, to the point it stressed me out. Is that because of gender? Maybe they aren’t straight? Does that make them on your side? Is that on you? Can you help me with that? Do you see the ridiculousness of this conversation being about somebody leaving after 2 months being called a bitch or a dick? For a lot of people, man or woman, that could ruin your reputation. Just because you happen to hear insults towards a woman before you hear it towards a man, does not mean that’s usually the case. Just like I’ve never, not once, seen sexual harassment in the workplace. But I don’t live my life through *somebody elses* lenses. That’s for the puppets.

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