Thank you. A thousand times thank you. I have a family member (not parents or sister thank goodness) who voted for Trump and he keeps saying that we just have to “agree to disagree” and I can’t accept that but I also can’t seem to make him understand why I can’t accept that. Thank you for giving me the language to combat his ignorance. I am also a lesbian and, though I don’t have a daughter, I do have a wife and your words really resonated with me. Thank you for being honest and showing that “going high” doesn’t have to mean acquiescing to bigotry.