“This is where I always feel like I’m acting. I’m putting on a role of someone who is more into it than I really am.”

K. D. — -I was just here. I also tried dating someone in the hopes of getting over someone else. I actually liked hanging out with the FNG. He was a complete sweetheart and we had a ton in common. It was the sex that made things clear. I was acting and after the third time, I just couldn’t do it anymore. I dreaded him even hinting about it. I love sex. I just know who I want to have it with and it isn’t him. So I’m not going to try and date anyone right now. I’m tired of thinking that somehow I’m less because I’m not with a man. Better to just be me than to have to fake it.