The Ultimate Guide to Selecting the Best Sex Worker for You
There are so many people who have delved into the sex service industry and came out vowing never to go back. From disappointments, frustrations and outright unpleasant service, these men and women are left wondering how such an industry can be thriving. While their experiences may be unfortunate, there are ways to minimizing the risk of this ever happening to you. The following guide gives you tips on what to pay attention to before booking that first session: Be sure that this may be difficult if you decide not to be honest with yourself.
Location, Location, Location: Where Do You Want It?
Lucky for you, sex workers can be found literally anywhere and with the golden age of the internet, finding them is as easy as downloading an app on your phone. However, you need to check where exactly they are based, and factor in any costs that may be incurred if you decide to choose a sex worker who is based a considerable distance from your area of residence. If you are not sure where they are based, just message them and request for their exact location. If they are unwilling to give the exact location, ask them for the name of the nearest hotel or landmark. This will help you figure out if you are able to sacrifice the time and cost to get to this particular sex worker.
Can I See You: Selecting Your Preferred Look

Everyone has a type. This is the simplest and most common truth. From hair length and color, race (I’m sorry to say), body shape, weight, height…etc. They is definitely nothing wrong with wanting what turns you on. No one ever went to a restaurant and was denied the power to choose: however, availability is another matter. If it helps, list the physical traits that you like in a sex partner. Then from there, browse through the pictures uploaded by the sex workers and choose the one that most resembles your ideal partner’s physical traits and characteristics. If one catches your eye as you browse, do not be afraid to reach out even though they may not be an exact match to what you are looking for.
Additionally, if you are skeptical about the profile photos, reach out and politely request for more pictures. Better yet, set up a cam session so that your fears can be alleviated (or confirmed!). Do not be afraid of contacting more than one sex worker, the most important person in this is you.
What Do I Want: Navigating Through the Services

Now that you know WHO you want, it is time to explore WHAT it is you want. This is where the importance of communicating with a number of sex workers comes in. What turns you on? What helps you get off? How far do you want to go? What are your immediate needs?
These are just some of the questions that you need to answer honestly. There are so many stories about men who just want the girlfriend experience, some who just need a listening ear while others need to satisfy their fetishes. Sex workers provide a variety of services, and you cannot choose wisely if you have no idea what you want. There are so many diverse services in the sex industry, and your imagination is your only limit (oh! and maybe finances). However, be very skeptical about those who have listed so many services (practice makes perfect and specializations are the best forms of practice).
Communication is utterly important at this stage. Always express your expectations and inquire whether he/she can fulfill them. If the service is not listed on their profile: It doesn’t hurt to ask.
When, Where and How Much: The Devil is in The Details

This is where you energy and efforts are going to be most applied. There are so many preparations required to ensure that your experience is ultimately pleasurable. However, you should allow a little wiggle room for spontaneity and play. Depending on the services you require, the planning will range from easy to seemingly impossible. For example, the girlfriend experience only requires basic texting and calling, while BDSM requires intense planning, including hygiene details. Safe sex practices, scope of service, time limit and location should ALWAYS be discussed. This spares everyone a lot of pain and frustrations later.
Another very important question is How Much. The more specialized the request, the more you should expect to part with. Word of Caution: If the offer seems too good to be true, it probably is. Always ensure that the time and location is set concretely and never make payment before services are rendered.
If you decide to meet at the sex worker’s place, always ensure that you check it out in advance by visiting the neighborhood. You do not need your session getting interrupted unnecessarily and you need to be sure it is in a safe place. If you have a question, never hesitate to ask. The sex worker is offering services, and customer care should be the most important aspect of this service. If the answers given seem shady or they get dodgy, you are better off finding someone else. Wanting and expecting the best for yourself is definitely not a crime. However, basic etiquette should be observed, for the benefit of both parties.
